The concept that a loving relationship between partners should be all about love and respect that should never be forgotten. There is an abundance of truly healthy relationships where both partners communicate, show respect and affection, and work hard to keep the relationship in good standing.
Unfortunately, there is also an abundance of relationships that look nothing like the aforementioned relationship. Even more distressing is that many of these destructive relationships evolved despite early signs of dysfunction. For women, these signs should be deal breakers that scream “Don’t Marry Him!”.
If your man does these 7 things don’t marry him:
He Devaluates You
Marriage is all about equality between two partners. If he doesn’t treat you as an intelligent and independent individual at par with him, you might want to give it a second thought. After all, who wants to spend a lifetime being treated as a second-class citizen.
He Disrespects Your Family And Friends
Your partner needs to embrace your family and friends wholeheartedly. While he may not be fond of every person in your life, considering he’s human, he still needs to respect them because they matter to you. Disrespecting people that mean the world to you just goes to show how little he values your opinion. Now, that’s something you should never accept.
He Is Unreliable
In a marriage, you need to know that you can depend on your husband and he will be your rock in difficult times. If your boyfriend, or fiancé, has a history of not turning up at moments you need him, it might be a good idea to think twice because people rarely change after marriage.
He Fails To Appreciate You
If your partner doesn’t appreciate or uplift you enough it is a sign of their disinterest in who you are and what you are good at. Everyone needs that little push in life, if he is not considerate of the fact that you are walking at your own pace and doing good things, why is he your partner?
He keeps secrets
While you can be as mysterious as you want with the world, your communication with your partner needs to be on point. If you suspect your partner is keeping secrets, ones that could potentially ruin your relationship, you need to sit down and have a conversation with them.
He Doesn’t Give Importance To Your Career
Your career needs to be just as important to him as he is to you. He shouldn’t see it as just something you do for ‘fun’. It’s important for him to acknowledge your dreams and ambitions and keep them in mind instead of disregarding them as frivolous. That’s not a man you want to end up with.
He Stretches Fight
‘Don’t dig up old graves’ is a famous saying and for good reason. Every person wants a partner who can find constructive solutions to a disagreement instead of making it worse. A partner who works towards addressing your insecurities is much better than a partner who stretches a fight, just to win the argument.
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